GROUP HOLDS CONFERENCE TO ADVOCATE MODESTY, SELF-WORTH, AND POSITIVE VALUES FOR THE GIRL CHILD

By Friday Etim, Supreme International Magazine 

LAGOS, NIGERIA – The Women and Modesty Global Initiative (WMGI), a non-governmental organization dedicated to promoting moral values, character development, and positive societal transformation, successfully hosted a landmark conference themed “The Girl Child and Modesty” at the University of Lagos. The event brought together students, educators, community leaders, professionals, entertainers, parents, youth advocates, and other stakeholders committed to the holistic development and empowerment of the girl child.

The conference served as a platform for meaningful conversations on self-worth, dignity, responsible living, leadership, and the importance of guiding young girls to become confident and productive members of society. It also highlighted the role of families, educational institutions, religious bodies, and communities in nurturing positive values among young people.

Speaking during the opening session, the Founder and President of the Women and Modesty Global Initiative, Ambassador Mrs. Emelda Ahunna Osuji, popularly known as “Madam Modesty,” emphasized the urgent need to promote modesty and moral consciousness among young women in an increasingly complex and fast-changing world.

According to Ambassador Osuji, modesty goes far beyond outward appearance and should be understood as a complete lifestyle that reflects dignity, discipline, wisdom, confidence, and self-respect.

“Modesty is not merely about clothing,” she said. “It is about character, conduct, attitude, and values. It is reflected in the way a young girl speaks, behaves, carries herself, and relates with others. A truly modest young woman understands her worth, respects herself, and makes choices that align with her future aspirations and personal growth.”

She noted that many young girls today face enormous pressures from social media trends, peer influence, and societal expectations, making it increasingly important for parents and mentors to provide proper guidance and support.

Ambassador Osuji stressed that empowering the girl child begins with helping her discover her identity, purpose, and value. She explained that when girls develop a healthy sense of self-worth, they become less vulnerable to negative influences and more capable of making decisions that contribute positively to their future.

“The girl child must be taught early in life that her value is not determined by public approval, social media validation, or external appearance. She must understand that she possesses inherent worth and unlimited potential. When a girl knows who she is, she is better equipped to resist harmful pressures and pursue meaningful goals,” she added.

A significant aspect of the conference focused on the importance of establishing healthy boundaries. Speakers highlighted how personal boundaries can help young people protect their values, maintain self-respect, and avoid situations that may jeopardize their emotional, academic, or professional future.

Participants were encouraged to develop the confidence to make independent choices rooted in positive values and long-term aspirations rather than temporary social acceptance.

The conference also featured discussions on mentorship, education, leadership development, and personal responsibility. Speakers urged parents, guardians, teachers, and community leaders to become active participants in shaping the future of young girls through mentorship, encouragement, and positive role modeling.

Addressing concerns about the widening generational gap between young people and adults, Ambassador Osuji emphasized the need for constructive communication and understanding.

“We must engage our young people with patience, compassion, and guidance. Criticism alone cannot build confidence or character. What many young people need today is mentorship, support, and examples they can look up to,” she stated.

She further reaffirmed that modesty remains relevant in contemporary society and can successfully coexist with education, fashion, beauty, ambition, confidence, and professional achievement.

“A young woman can be fashionable, intelligent, successful, influential, and still uphold values that reflect dignity and self-respect. Modesty does not limit potential; rather, it strengthens character and enhances personal credibility,” she said.

The event was marked by vibrant entertainment, inspiring performances, and engaging interactions that created a memorable experience for attendees. Popular television personality and master of ceremonies Dr. Champion Mike kept the audience energized throughout the program with his dynamic presentation and engaging style.

Guests were treated to outstanding comedy performances by celebrated entertainers including MOG Akpors, Big Mickey, Dr. Possible, and Tina Black, whose performances brought laughter and excitement to the gathering while reinforcing positive social messages.

The atmosphere was further enriched by musical performances from Golden Angel, Debbie Salami, and Tobi Vibes, who delivered inspiring renditions that resonated with the audience and added a celebratory dimension to the event. My

The conference attracted several distinguished personalities from various sectors of society. Among the notable guests in attendance were Don Pedro Aganbi; HRM Oba Dr. Abraham Olatunji Ogabi, Oyikilu I, Ajagun of Imeke Kingdom, represented by Prince Tunji Ogabi; Olori Temitope Ogabi; veteran Nollywood actress Ngozi Nwosu; Mary Edward; SP Chidi Okoye; actress Amandla Ebeye; Ambassador Cornell Udofia; Mrs. Margaret; High Chief Sumudu I of Mbasi; Emeka Amadi; Dr. Faith Paul; John Morka; Ekuma; Angela (Golden Angel); Dr. Chief Victor Chukwurah; actor Hakeem Rahman; former President of the Actors Guild of Nigeria; Chief Stephen Ochije; Hon. IG Inyang, Vice Chairman of the Non-Indigene Association of Nigeria; comedian Tina Black; Rev. Gabriel C. Ibegbunam; and Emem Williams, among others.

One of the major highlights of the conference was the presentation of awards to distinguished individuals who have demonstrated excellence and made significant contributions in the areas of community development, leadership, entertainment, youth empowerment, humanitarian service, and social advocacy.

Recipients of the awards included HRM Oba Abraham Olatunji Ogabi, Dr. Champion Mike, Ambassador Cornell Udofia, Amandla Ebeye, Ngozi Nwosu, Dr. Hakeem Rahman, Mr. and Mrs. Steven Ochije, Chief Victor Chukwurah and Lolo, Christian Egbeji, Big Mickey, and several other deserving individuals whose efforts have positively impacted society.

The award presentations underscored the conference’s broader objective of celebrating positive role models and inspiring young people to pursue excellence, integrity, and service to humanity.

At the conclusion of the event, the Women and Modesty Global Initiative reaffirmed its commitment to championing programs and initiatives that promote the welfare, empowerment, education, and moral development of young girls across Nigeria and beyond.

The organization pledged to continue partnering with stakeholders, educational institutions, community leaders, and advocacy groups to advance conversations around character development, responsible leadership, and positive social values.

The conference ended on a high note, with participants expressing appreciation for the initiative and calling for similar programs to be organized regularly in order to strengthen value-based education and inspire a generation of confident, responsible, and purpose-driven young women.